Wednesday, February 22, 2017
This is Laurie's cupcake quilt. I am stab stitching a cupcake on each block. So far I only have a few blocks done. It took me about 2-1/2 weeks after surgery to gather any creative energy to work on it. I had a couple of false starts on the stitching. I wanted the threads to be kind of prominent so I "tested" a couple of different weights. Robbie Porter suggested #5 perle cotton and it was perfect.
One thing I miss a real lot during this recovery is playing with my dogs. I'm pretty sure they are missing it to. The weather here has be unseasonably warm, like a lot of the country which makes it hard not to be outside checking out the pond. But it has thawed and I can see the fish through the window. I always hold my breath until the ice melts to see if they survived the winter. Blue Birds and Sparrows are vying for the bird houses. Means an early Spring to me!! So that's what I have been up to. How's the weather where you are?
Thankful: I am so thankful that the winter was mild and my fish survived it. A couple of years ago we had a harsh winter and lost them all. The fish we have now are the ones that we bought to replace them. Funny how even a fish can become special to you. My favorite is a big blue calico Shebunkin. By the time my foot is healed I'll be looking for my frogs.
Be well. Love life.
Tuesday, February 7, 2017
The doctor that WAS treating her is the same one that treated my FIL. Terry and I never agreed with the treatment he recommended, as other family members did or didn't. It was not our decision, it was my FIL's. When Marcella was first diagnosed, she went under the care of that same doctor. He owns a cancer treatment center here in South Bend. Chemo, Radiation and meds are all received through his Center. Somehow that does not seem correct to me....but I'll move on with this story. The Center removed a cancerous spot and lymph node...oh, so she thought! She went on to receive Chemo...no radiation.
When she went to IUMC for the second opinion, she had tests and saw a Doc who told her they would be able to give her medication to keep her comfortable. They found sources to pay for the treatment. That doc took Marcella's case to their board after so they could review the tests etc they had taken. There are several things that are still in review. Let me tell you...the first doctor did not remove the cancerous lymph node and it was broadcasting cancerous cells to other parts of her body. The Chemo doc didn't catch that and he SHOULD have. What a fiasco. She is so joyous I didn't talk to her about if there were something legal they should be doing about THAT. Anyway, she is going to have surgery as soon as it is scheduled. I'm not sure what exactly they will remove. She is on medication that will encircle the spots that won't be removed but will keep them from growing and should reduce their size. We have always heard that IU was one of the best places to go for cancer treatment. Our hospital in Goshen's cancer treatment is affiliated with IU. We wanted her to go there from the beginning, but she had faith in Dad's doc. She went through a lot of pain and suffering both physical and mental only to find out she was not getting proper care.
I have no further comment about what I shared with you above....frankly I don't know what to say or how I should be feeling about it.
Now, for the thank you!! I am using our laptop to type this post. It drives me crazy. Sometimes I don't touch anything and the curser jumps somewhere I don't want it to be. It is so annoying. Not sure if it's to do with windows 10 or the laptop. I have received and read every one of your past comments. I usually like to respond to each one. That is so easy when I receive a notification of your comment in my gmail. But when I have to read them from the comments section of my dashboard, I would have to go back to gmail to type the email to you and this danged laptop does not cooperate too well. So THANK YOU so much for all your comments and well wishes. If you didn't receive a personal response, it was NOT because I didn't care. I appreciate all that read my posts, whether you comment or not.
Thankful....well so many things, but today I am especially grateful for my two doctors...Dr. James Reidy and Dr. James Flynn. I love those guys!!
Posted by Carol- Beads and Birds at 1:48 PM
Saturday, February 4, 2017
This is the fouth day afer surgery. To say I am bored and tired is the truth. My foot must be elevated and I have to keep this boot on until I see the Doc in a couple of weeks. I have a choice of putting ice on my leg...20 minutes on, 20 minutes off. Or I can keep ice on the boot 24/7 which is my choice. I do not do well with narcotic pain pills and the ice keeps the pain down and allows me to go without meds so it is an easy choice for me.
Before I had surgery I practiced walking using crutches and thought I had that down until I came home and almost fell twice. Then I figured I could put my leg on a stool and scootch around and that worked ok. Since I thought I would be ok with crutches I opted to get a scooter after the two weeks that I am not supposed to get up except to use the bathroom.
That lasted less than 24 hours and off Terr went to pic it up the next morning.
This scooter is a blessing and makes moving around so much easier. My insurance did not cover it, but a $68 per month rental I don't know why I hesitated to get it. I am really antsy to stitch something. Maybe tomorrow I'll try to stitch cupcakes on Laurie's quilt.
Lots to be thankful for today:
Modern medicine, Terry's wonderful nursing skills, Corey who is helping Terry take care of the house, my scooter and my DOGS who come to visit me and check to see that I'm OK. I guess my laptop too which I am using to post this, and my blog friends.
Be well, be happy, stay healthy.