Thursday, August 17, 2017
When my brother-in-law's grandchildren and step grandchildren have gotten married, they have hand carried shower and wedding and graduation invitations to us. I find that to be nice. Not only do we get the invitation, but we get to have a nice visit with them.
But I guess there is a new trend happening with today's youth. About two weeks ago I received a message on FB messenger from my niece Crystal. (She is BIL Jerry's daughter) It was a picture of a digital wedding invitation for HER niece. (BIL Larry's step granddaughter). This gets complicated. Anyway, the caption of the Messenger Message was an RSVP. the message was send to everyone in the family. The method of the delivery did not determine if we would go or not go. But I did think that if this was their way of inviting people to an informal wedding, then surely we should have received an individual "message" invite.
The other day when I opened my Facebook page I had a notification that I was invited to an "EVENT". I get a lot of these for civic events etc. THIS one invited me to the wedding shower for the couple I just wrote about. I mentioned it to my grandson's girlfriend and she said this is pretty common now. I find this entire situation very impersonal.
Tell me what you think? Have you ever received invitations via social media? Are you wondering if etiquette is becoming passe?
If you need an AWWWW moment, I leave you with this picture and wondering just WHO this guy IS.
Tuesday, July 25, 2017
We are totally focused on maintaining the landscape around the pond. Last year we didn't spend much time out there except relaxing and watching fish as we went through the grieving process when Terry's dad died. We spend as much time working around it as we can now, but hot and humid days and rainy days limit us. Then when the sun comes back out and the humidity subsides we find the weeds have taken over again. It a cycle, but adding mulch has helped to keep it down some.
If you have been a blog friend you might remember that I suffer from depression. Though I take medication, sometimes it overpowers the meds. I don't get despondent, but I do withdraw. That is what I have been going through recently. While I was recuperating from foot surgery, I did't spend ANY time in my "room". Dust collected. Since my home office and sewing room share space, filing accumulated as well. So self medication for my recent depression has sent me to my room to take it back over. I've been purging unnecessary paper files and records. It is so liberating to have a clear counter to work at.
I'll be posting more now. I may not have much to show as far as stitching goes right now, but since my blog is kind of my journal, I do have things to say. I really wish I could write in a paper journal, but no matter how many times I try to start one, I just can't make it happen.
What I am Grateful for at the moment: Doctors, Dogs and Dolls. More on THAT in a future post.
Tell me something today. Do you keep a journal? My friend Timaree keeps a WONDERFUL art journal. How has your weather been? Has it been hot and humid where you live? What are you sewing or stitching? Inquiring minds, you know!
Monday, July 3, 2017
Well. The time. I slowed down for just a minute and had to flip the calendar to July. All my life I have felt like when the 4th of July came, the summer was half over.
We got off to a kind of slow summer start here in Northern Indiana. It seemed like the warm weather held off too long and the rain would not go away.
But, on the nice days that there are no doctor appointments or funerals we have been getting a lot done outside.
On one spring trip to Menards I spotted this Arbor. We have had our bird feeders and suets hung from several shepherd hooks off the front deck. I was kind of unsightly, not to mention the birds pooped far to much on the deck railing. When I spotted this Arbor I thought it would be nice to hang the feeders from. It worked perfectly, though I do still have one shepherd hook for the hummer and oriole feeders. At first, it confused the squirrels, but they are crafty critters and found a way to get to the suet, though they can't eeat from the seed feeders. We have redomiciled the chipmunks to the county park. We were getting over run with them. They are cute to watch, but I think they can pack 1/2 suet cake in their jaws at one time. I can't believe that we have caught 7 of them in just a week in our live trap.
Remember last summer when I posted about the maple in the back yard that came down in a storm and broke almost all of the privacy fence? Well we bought 25 sections to replace it. One day Corey and a friend came by and replaced 1/2 of it. Kyle usually comes over one day a week to help Terry do whatever needs to be done so we replaced the rest of it when he came last week. I still need to spray water protector on it.
We have been working around the pond getting landscaping done that we lost speed on last summer when Terry's dad became sick and then passed. We just never got our interest focused there. The pond area will NEVER be done because I always find something more I want to do. We have perfected the walk way around it and have added solar lights that I be we bought 6 years ago and never put them out. Maybe it was longer than that because the price on them said $1 and I see them at Walmart now for $3 each. We bought bug zapper lights to put out. We'll do that the next time Ky comes to work.
Grateful: We have some health issues going on that I'm going to mention sometime soon. Most days it's hard to focus on one thing to be grateful for...I can't seem to get past Life with Terry which we will be celebrating Year 46 pretty darned soon. For sure I'll be saying....Where Did It Go. You know, TIME!
Wishing you a happy and safe 4th.
Sunday, June 4, 2017
There they sat, patiently waiting until they felt safe enough to return to the water. Long enough for me to go back into the house and get several pictures. They looked down at me as if to say they could wait longer than I could. I went back in to get a cup of coffee, but when I returned, they were gone.
I don't so much mind the ducks in the pond, but I have read different theories about whether they will eat my fish or frogs so I am taking NO chances. AND they leave horrible "droppings".
We have been spending as much time outside as we can. It seems that we are only good for about two hours of yard work before we MUST sit in the swing and relax by the pond. We have watched the Blue Birds select which house they will use for their next brood. We had a Catbird nest in the Honeysuckle. Watched a Cardinal pair raise a Cowbird baby whose egg was left in the Cardinal nest. Of course the Robin made a nest in an awkward place on the pole that holds the gate to the carport.
Our To Do list this week is to begin putting pea gravel on the walk way around the pond, more weeding, and weather permitting we'll begin to re-fence the side of the yard where the tree destroyed the present fence. We used to do all that in a day or two. Now we'll be lucking to have it done in a WEEK or two.
Grateful: For just so many things, but for reasons I'll probably talk about in the future....to be sharing these days with Terry. Oh, I know I said when I started listing things I am grateful for that I would not include the obvious, but it's just how I have been feeling lately.
Have you noticed something of Nature lately and taken the time to enjoy it? I love to hear about it.
Thursday, May 25, 2017
What the Heck Is THIS? Well, I'll tell you in a minute.
First, thank you for sticking with me as I have been absent for about a month. Hopefully I will get back in the groove of posting on a more regular basis. I had a really good routine going. I would get up each day at about 5 AM to be sure my grandson got up for work, do all my computer stuff like reading and writing blogs, paying bills and catching up on the news. Then my grandson moved out. My routine crashed into sleeping until about 8AM. Then Terry would get up a short time later. He does that when the dogs wake him up to eat. For some reason they think they can't eat before he gets up. Silly dogs. Then I hate to leave him alone so I do all that computer stuff on the laptop. I HATE the laptop. It's Win 10 and does not cooperate with Android apps so posting on he blog is a pain because for some reason I can't move pics around or put the cursor where I want it to be. So that's my excuse for being gone for a while.
Ok, Now to the story. One morning about a month ago we went out to the pond. There in the water was something we have never seen before and we have had a pond for at LEAST 40 years. It was some tubular looking something that almost looked like Nature's fibrous rope with black specks inside. So, of course I took a picture after I surmised it must be frog eggs. OMGosh, yes it was. About a billion of them that are now all small tadpoles. Last year we had so many, but they died. I investigated and found that tadpoles eat algae. Every year Terry treats the pond to kill leaf debris and algae. This year we never got over to the supplier to buy the treatment so we have decided to find out what will happen when all these frogs grow legs. I wonder if there is a market for frogs, lol.
There are other things going on around this house and I'll let you know all about them. Hope you come back to see what's up.
Today I am grateful for all things nature, especially for my frogs. I share a lot of time with them.
What's new with you? Have you ever watched frogs grow?
Sunday, April 23, 2017
One of my blog friends Dawn posted this morning about one of her neighbors. We moved in our house in 1976. The neighborhood is 3 blocks by 3 blocks and most of Terry's family lives within the nine blocks. Children of those that lived here when we moved in tend to find a house in the neighborhood when they leave the nest. At one time, my daughter fulfilled her dream of buying the house next door to us.
Back when we first moved in, we already knew some of the people that lived here. Most were our age, but we did have some neighbors that were the older generation. We used to have Block Parties a couple of times a month. Really, someone had a party and most of the neighborhood came. It was always Bring You Own Bottle, liquor or pop, and something for the grill or a dish to share. Those parties happened for about 7 years. We were a really close group of friends. I don't know why the parties ever stopped. I suppose some of our friends moved on.
This is still a pretty good neighborhood. Some of the kids Laurie grew up with still live here. Even some of THEIR kids stayed in the neighborhood when they flew the nest. Here and there a house has gone to rental and the tenants lack concern for others that live here. Loud cars and loud music. We've even had a meth lab that was busted. It is a different world today and I do miss the neighborhood as it was back in '76.
My grandson moved out last week. New truck and new apartment. If it weren't for the dogs we'd be empty nesters, lol. I am enjoying a slower pace...a lot.
Today I am grateful that my grandson is able to earn a living that is sufficient to support himself.
What kind of neighborhood do you live in? Are you friendly with your neighbors of just wavers?
Monday, March 20, 2017
Barbara is a Gray Witch and if you want to know what that means, you can find out on Google. She's not a bad witch. She has led an interesting life. It would surprise you to know that she was born Amish. It would NOT surprise you to know that she was shunned.
Barbara is 74 and has been reading tarot cards for 50 years. She has a dog that actually DOES say "I love you". She remembers that the first time she met my grandson she gave him a hamster. I don't know all that Barbara does, but I know she believes in what she does. She has made a good living reading tarot cards and has been "entertaining" at various conventions and other events that would surprise you. For about 8 years she had a spot on the local radio station. Silly people would call in asking questions and think they were getting Psychic advise. To my ears, all I heard was common sense answers. The kind smart parents would give their kids and probably do, but somehow it sounds smarter from someone they think has the inside scoop.
Our family loves her. She is straight forward. She can entertain you for hours with stories about things she has done and people she has met. Well known people in this town come to her for readings. She will relate their story, but NEVER tell you who they are. We would NEVER prod her to do so. She has given many volunteer hours to various causes in town and is very well thought of.
The first time I met Barbara she wanted to do a reading for me. I said ok on a whim. She knew nothing about me..there was no way for her to. But she told me 3 things about me that NO ONE could possibly know. Not Terry..Not anyone...Nada. Not future...past. HOW? Doesn't matter. She's Barbara.